Could this be, what we call in tamil, ‘Oodal’, a little not-so serious fight between the lovers, ‘sulking’ is the most nearby meaning word i could get in english..
People who perform some useful task are not bothered if they hear some critics to their work, but people who do no useful work at all always think themselves very important and hide their incompetence behind their authority
There are some people who ask me whether I ever worried about something, someday. My answer would be No. The immediate question from the other side would be ‘How come you never had any problem in your life?’
I need to explain them; a problem is the one which, you think, has no solution for it. I never thought any problem does not have a solution. So I never had any problems that have no solutions.
The next question comes up, ‘What will you do in future if you encounter a problem that has no solutions?’ My answer, ‘Immediately start to look out for solutions’.
‘So you will never worry about anything?’
‘No people in the world that have nothing to worry. But prioritizing the tasks helps some of us not to worry about the problems. Whenever we encounter a problem, the first thought about it should be how to solve it. But most of us start worrying whether we will be able to solve it. The actual problem arises here. The problems are created by nature in our life so that the brave minds solve it and live happily. But many of us do not want to find the solution even if it is at our doorsteps.’
‘Hope everyone understands it’
One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
The word itself is a beautiful one. But it gets its real meaning only when you find the true friends; most importantly understand your friend. ‘A friend indeed is a friend in need’. Everyone knows it. But the real problem arises when you do not realize who is trying to help you. There are few people that are ready to sacrifice their self-dignity itself for the wellness of their friends. But the sad part is that their friends do not understand this and the friendship is gone forever.
A real friendship starts with understanding your friend. Do not know how we can become very close to someone without even understanding them.
Hope we will understand the people and by which we will know who our real friend is.
There are different sets of people who are poles apart in their characters, whom we would be meeting in daily life, but do not want to fall any of the category.
There are some people who know many things but keep it with themselves. Even if you ask them to help you with it they pretend they do not know that. And there are these people who pretends they know everything and voluntarily give advices on how the things to be done even if you don’t want their advice.
Ultimately both are useless. The knowledge of the former is not all useful. The one who taught them the things, actually wasted their precious time in doing that. In case of the latter, it is even more dangerous. Hardly anyone likes them. These are the folks whom we tend to avoid.
Wonder anyone in the middle who tries to help in the things they know and only when asked? I hardly find very few people in this category. Want to be in this category.
Live your life not celebrating victories, but overcoming defeats